Perhaps some independent, 3rd party to both discuss with would help. Intentions to hurt are not good, but could be a symptom of an underlying problem you may be able resolve together. Best wishes with it all!Thank you!
This is so relevant for me right now.
Very insightful post.
I’m attempting to do the work needed to heal my wounds but I’m still very attached to my ex who I suspect has NPD.
Trauma bonded so am finding it extremely difficult to detach.
Was wondering if he could possibly be my twin but have come to the conclusion that he wouldn’t intentionally hurt me if he was.